Thursday, November 24, 2005

Gobble! Gobble! Gobble!

I'm off for some wine and cheese at home tonight and cleaning and reading. yea!

Tomorrow is church and then to the pastor's for the big meal along with some others I know. Leftovers that night will probably be at Chris's mom's place, then back to work on Fri, where I think I'll bring potato soup for the crew. I know, not terribly Thanksgivingish, but I have a ton of spuds from the farmer's market.

Thanksgiving. A pretty darned boring holiday. One of my least favs actually. Nothing on but that damned sport and I don't really like turkey. I try to focus on the whole "thanks" part of the holiday and remember that I at least have turkey to eat and am typically surrounded by family and/or friends at a place that has electricity and a TV.

Time to leave my junky job (that I am actually thankful that I have even though I don't like) and go home.

Thank you, God, for reminding me of the joy that you alone can give, regardless of turkey, football and being far away from those I love most.

Tuesday, November 22, 2005

These are a few...

*TEN FIRSTS*
First Best Friend: Shay something or other, then Kendra Jo Pittman and then Laura Hitt
First Screen Name: gosh, no recollection, probably arthompson
First Pet: Ebony, big dog that I don't recollect, really mostly remember Coco Rice Krispies
First Piercing: Ears (ONLY piercing I might add)
First Crush: any number of cuties from kindergarten, Robbie McCormick and Todd somebody
First CD: no idea, my first ALBUM was Alabama's Roll On
First Car: '76 Ford LTD, a semi could've run me down in that I'd have never known
First Real Love: chocolate, heeheehee
First Stuffed Animal: Sandy, a big pink (I know, I know, I now hate pink) teddy bear that my Mom finally threw away because it was a wee bit dingy.

*NINE LASTS*
Last Car ride: to work this morning, is it me or this an odd question? who made this list?
Last Movie Seen: I'm sure it was a chick-flick, something about a prince going to school in America incognito, maybe with Julia Stiles?
Last Phone Call: I made -- tech support, received -- personally, a gal from Origins at the mall
Last CD Played: Toby Keith's Christmas CD from like '95.
Last Bubble bath: allergic to bubbles, bummer, but do enjoy a nice hot tub full of bath salts, light some candles and enjoy a good book
Last time you Cried: sure it was recently, perhaps when I watched the Ronald Reagan 18-minute political film (really it's a tear jerker)

*EIGHT HAVE YOU EVERS*
Have you ever dated one of your best friends?: Sorta
Have you ever been arrested? No, pulled over, yea
Have you ever skinny dipped? No
Have you ever been on TV? Yes
Have you ever kissed someone then regretted it? um, ya, and will deny it to the grave!

*SEVEN THINGS YOU ARE WEARING*
1. black pants
2. grey & red sweater
3. black socks
4. black shoes
5. my treasured Tiffany earrings
6. glasses
7. SC lanyard with work 'flair'

*SIX THINGS YOU'VE DONE TODAY*
1. Went to work
2. had lunch with a friend
3. made tea (more than once)
4. filed papers
5. checked my email a bazillion times
6. posted this facinating revelation of me

*FIVE FAVORITE THINGS IN NO ORDER*
1. Family and friends
2. scrapbooking
3. Jesus
4. jewels
5. meat

*FOUR PEOPLE YOU CAN TELL ALMOST ANYTHING TO*
1. Rubes
2. TX Laura
3. Shari
4. Andrea

*THREE CHOICES*
1.Black or White: Black
2. Hot or Cold: Hot, used to think cold but then moved to the Frozen Tundra and changed my mind
3.Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate

*TWO THINGS YOU WANT TO DO BEFORE YOU DIE*
1. Start a family
2. give away a million dollars

*ONE THING YOU REGRET*
1. some of my word choices to loved ones

Friday, November 11, 2005

Lion, Witch & Wardrobe

I'm helping to facilitate a book study on this C.S. Lewis classic on Sunday afternoon. Anyone have any good suggestions or sources online that I might check out? We're only doing the first five chapters. Thanks in advance. And if you haven't read this GO GET IT NOW!

Thursday, November 10, 2005

One of Life's Lessons

I hesitate to type this, but I have been thinking quite a bit lately about the personal nature of many blogs I have read. Personal, introspective, either way, mine is really a daily log of activities rather than much more. In an attempt to go futher and in response to a request, here it goes. Hopefully other introspections will be much better.

In my undergraduate days I made a few minor errors. ALRIGHT! I made some whopping errors in judgment. I began a long-term intimate relationship with a fellow student that lasted far too long for everyone involved. While I cared about him, I did not ever love him the way a woman should love her husband. I was however, in love with the idea of being in love. Praise the Lord, I listened to his prompting and finally ended the relationship. However, while involved with this man, I made a mistake in not calling my folks to let them know that I had made it safely back to school following interterm one year. I had stopped at the dorm and dropped off all of my belongings and then proceeded to his dorm where we watched movies and fell asleep. (For those not aware, my alma mater does NOT have co-ed dorms nor did it have generous visitation hours at the time of my attendance. Overnight stays were certainly against all rules.) Anyway, we were rudely awakened early in the morning by a pounding on the dorm room door. To which he hesitantly asked who was there. A strong, loud voice alerted us to the presence of the Highway Patrol. The officer asked if he knew where I was and if I was in the room. He answered yes and the officer told him to have me call my mother. This was prior to many dorm room phones and cell phones. I had to go upstairs to the pay phone and humbly call my parents and make up some story (other than being rudely awakened in my boyfriend's room) about my whereabouts all night long. My parents threatened to remove me from school, etc.

Not one of my shining moments, that is certain.

Never fear, my more recent police meetings have been on better terms.

How awful. ick, or as they say in the Frozen Tundra--ish.

I learned a lot. Perhaps mostly in retrospect. Listen to your parents and ALWAYS call home upon safe arrival. Don't get ahead of yourself. Don't be stupid. Follow the rules (which, let's face it, I usually do). God forgives even our stupidity when we bow humbly before him.

from God

And now from Scripture, the Lord call us to welcome and love and share His grace and mercy with ALL.

from Romans 3:21-31

"But now a righteousness from God, apart from law, has been made known, to which the Law and the Prophets testify. This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood. He did this to demonstrate his justice, because in his forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished--he did it to demonstrate his justice at the present time, so as to be just and the one who justifies those who have faith in Jesus.
"Where, then, is boasting? It is excluded. On what principle? On that of observing the law? No, but on that of faith. For we maintain that a man is justified by faith apart from observing the law. Is God the God of Jews only? Is he not the God of Gentiles too? Yes, of Gentiles too, since there is only one God, who will justify the circumcised by faith and the uncircumcised through that same faith. Do we, then, nullify the law by this faith? Not at all! Rather, we uphold the law."

Romans has a great deal to say about cultural brokering and racial reconciliation. Godspeed.

from T.C. Boyle

the tortilla curtain

This book shows how your beliefs can be tested. Who are you really? It doesn't pose the question of faith, but makes a believer question what does God desire of you in such situations?

I have pages of notes, but will offer only one here from page 19 --
Candido's wife, America, has gone into the city to try and find some sewing work. It was a wild goose chase and she got lost in the process. It was her first real trip to the city, especially alone and she was shocked and amazed. (Candido and America are illegal Mexicans in California.)
"A gabacho sat on the sidewalk with his long hair and begged for change and the sight of him struck her with holy terror: if he had to beg in his own country, what chance was there for her?"

Quotes from Crespo

These are a few quotes and occasionally my thoughts on quotes from Orlando Crespo's Being Latino in Christ: Finding Wholeness in Your Ethnic Identity, Downers Grove, IL: InterVaristy Press, 2003.

from p 73 --
"Jesus was not acultural or nonethnic. The Son of God was incarnated into a specific culture. He recognized and ahered to many cultural guidelines and boundaries, even though he was always stretching them."

Jesus often kept within the cultural boundaries because He knew that it was the best way to serve and reach out to those within that culture. People respond better to love and understanding than a forcible "I like you and want to help you, you'd be better off like me" attitude.

from p 88 --
"In the end we cannot stop ourselves from functioning as cultural beings. As we interact with one another and with God, all of these external in internal cultural patterns are present whether we want to admit it or not."

from p 90--
"as followers of Christ we must invite God to reveal all of our cultural values, beliefs and customs so that they can be conformed into his image."

My culture isn't the only one, nor is it the right one.